In The End We All Turn To Dust. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QmGSGuQHmc&feature=player_embedded RIP Mike, strange person, wacky inventor, person who left and never got blamed for leaving. I wish you had beaten Hon Lik, I would be sitting pretty on an island right now. I really hope that you are happy in a parallel universe and that... Continue Reading →
I went outside the other day only to discover that it was the middle of the day. But I was determined to enjoy myself and get out of my cave. So I forced my way out into the light of day. Only to completely fall of the deep... Continue Reading →
I'm wicked excited to be a part of Transcending Boundaries. I am heading to Worcester MA this weekend to present my research and perform a show on the same topic, Gender Variant Language! The show is Friday night and is boringly named "TBC Primer" for gawd only knows what reason. I guess the show is... Continue Reading →
I'll be in Santa Barbara Wednesday April 28th to give a lecture on kinky sex at the LGBTQQIIK & GQ conference at UCSB. I'm wildly excited about the event. See you in Santa Barbara!
Today is my six-year Bikram anniversary. I’m in love with it. I can’t get enough. I jumped up out of bed at 5:30 this morning so excited to get my first class of the sixth year! I’m all giddy over this shit. It is addicting, it is a cult, it is the best thing I... Continue Reading →
INTRODUCTION TO THE PROBLEM There is little awareness in the mainstream regarding trans-issues. One of the major issues surrounding the lack of awareness is the issue of what to call transgender people. The problem is that we lack language patterns and terminology to define and discuss gender variant folks. The structure of the English language... Continue Reading →
Is it wrong to sleep with the mechanic to get my car fixed? I didn’t think so either, that was until I realized that I’m not straight and he’s not kinky. Also, when he got his dick out I almost laughed myself into an involuntary golden shower! Is the car fixed? Yes and no. The... Continue Reading →
I generally think that coming out is a bad idea. Anytime you have to articulate your identity you are giving credence to the ideology of heteronormative behavior. When was the last time someone came out to you as straight? Coming out presupposes a world of coerced conformity. A world where nuclear, heterosexual, two person, monogamous... Continue Reading →