I generally think that coming out is a bad idea. Anytime you have to articulate your identity you are giving credence to the ideology of heteronormative behavior. When was the last time someone came out to you as straight? Coming out presupposes a world of coerced conformity. A world where nuclear, heterosexual, two person, monogamous … Continue reading Coming Out
For over 40 hours now I have been wanting to sit down and write about the connections of my childhood and the reason I think men should pay for it. Raymond. When I was nine I had a 14 year old slave who would bring me gifts after all the lights went out. He brought … Continue reading Paying For It
I am planning a nationwide tour. I'm booking my one-woman show, If Lucy Had A Whip: Tales of an American Dominatrix, and taking it to fabulous places like Omaha, Buffalo, and Reno. Sounds like fun, hun? Anyway, last time I did a big tour I had a guy contact me and tell me that he … Continue reading Have an RV? ~~~~~ Be My Road Bitch!